Getting Ready
Preparations
We ask that you provide the following for the day of your son's bris
1 Kiddush Cup
Any cup will do, however a nice cup can be used again and again throughout life — connecting the past with his future (Bar Mitzvah, wedding, etc.).
Kippot (head coverings) for your guests
Rabbi Glantz makes and brings matching kippot for Dad and Baby with Hebrew and English names painted on light blue suede. Moms who wear kippot are welcome — let Howard know and he is glad to accommodate.
1 bottle of sweet kosher grape wine or grape juice
The remainder may be saved and marked "to be used for a toast" at your son's future Bar Mitzvah, wedding, etc. Be sure to purchase only red (may appear purple) grape wine or grape juice. Blackberry and Cherry do not warrant the more recognizable blessing 'borei p'ri hagafen' so it is not preferable. Fine wines are terrific for your guests, but babies prefer the sweeter.
2 receiving blankets
The type from the hospital is fine. Intended for mom (usually) to hold, so that when baby is returned, he is warm and can be swaddled.
A table with at least two chairs
A standard folding card table is large enough. Choose a well-lit area. You may want to have it covered (both cloth and disposable are fine).
3 diapers and wipes
Just in case!
1 small wastepaper basket (with liner)
Planning the Date
The bris takes place on the eighth day of the baby's life, counting the day of birth as day one. For example, if your son is born on a Sunday, the bris will be the following Sunday.
In Jewish law, a day begins at sunset. A bris is improper if performed after sunset or before the morning star. Contact Rabbi Glantz as soon as your baby is born to confirm the date and time.
The Honors
Rabbi Glantz will walk you through all the traditional honors — the Kvatter and Kvatterin, the Sandek, and more. These are wonderful opportunities to involve grandparents, godparents, and close family.
Discuss any special readings, poems, or creative touches with Rabbi Glantz in advance — he takes great pleasure in customizing the ceremony to your needs.
Questions?
Call Rabbi Glantz — he is happy to walk you through every detail.